Gaby’s story - Why lived experience matters in Youth Work
Gaby share's her personal journey from a teenager living in residential care to becoming the person that helps teenagers living in care
Gaby had a personal experience of living in residential care as a teenager when she was placed in emergency accommodation. Inspired by the positive impact a great Youth Worker can have on a young person's life, at the age of 17, she decided to pursue a career in this field.
However, due to some major life changes, Gaby had to put her studies on hold for a few years. Nevertheless, she never lost her passion for Youth Work and eventually resumed her studies to fulfil her dream of becoming a Youth Worker.
Tell us a bit about yourself?
Hi there! My name is Gabriana, but everyone calls me Gaby. I am based in South Australia and have been working as a Care Practitioner (also known as a Youth Worker) for the past 12 months.
As a single mother, my two amazing children aged 8 and 1 year are my joy and top priority.
I am currently studying for my Diploma in Community Services and I am expected to finish in March this year. In my free time, I volunteer as a Soccer Coordinator where I help build soccer teams for kids, support the coaches, and organise presentations. My son loves soccer, and this has been a great way for me to get involved and support his passion, even though I don't know much about the game myself, apart from the fact that Cristiano Ronaldo is the best (according to my son).
How do you manage it all?
To be honest, it’s a struggle sometimes.
I try to find moments in my day, even if it's just a few minutes here and there. I find driving and listening to music helps me unwind and destress. And let's be real, my phone is both a blessing and a curse. It's great for work and my volunteer work, but it can be a real distraction. That's why I make a conscious effort to put it away when I can and just be present. That way I can switch off and take a break.
Why do you think having Lived Experience is important?
Working as a Youth Worker has been quite a journey for me. I have gone through a lot of the same experiences as the young people I support. I know what it's like to be in emergency accommodation, to feel like no one cares or is listening. It can be so overwhelming and scary, especially when you're potentially worried about not seeing your family again until you're 18.
But, my experiences give me a unique perspective and understanding of what they're going through. It helps me build rapport and connect with them quickly, which is super important. If you don't take the time to understand the young person, it's hard to connect with them. They can tell when someone's not being authentic.
Take for instance, when a young person is angry and throwing things, it's never about me. It's about what they're feeling and experiencing. And in those moments, the best way to help them is to stay calm, cool, and collected. That's just my two cents from my experiences.
What does a typical day look like for you at work?
One big part of my job is establishing routines and structure, which can be especially important for young people who come from chaotic environments. I work from a therapeutic approach and adjust my methods based on the needs of the young person I'm supporting. For instance, I might introduce meal times, which can be a simple but impactful change for someone who has lived without knowing when they would eat next.
I'm often called upon to support a young person in potentially high-stress situations, like police interviews or child services meetings. Thanks to my ability to build rapport quickly, I'm able to de-escalate the situation and help the young person navigate through it.
What do you love most about your role?
When I'm able to turn a negative situation into a positive one, that's what makes this work so rewarding for me. It's all about showing up for these young people and giving them the support they need.
What has been the biggest challenge you have found in the role?
It can be a real roller coaster working with young people, especially when they are dealing with tough emotional situations. Some days are just a non-stop cycle of de-escalating, regulating emotions, and trying to keep everyone calm. And when I have to do it for two young people at the same time, it can get challenging. But I've learned that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to handling these situations. I might try talking to them, redirecting their focus, or just giving them some space.
And when all else fails, I take a few deep breaths and remind myself to stay calm and collected.
What advice would you give to someone interested in becoming a Youth Worker?
Being a Youth Worker is both rewarding and challenging. Qualifications are important, but having the right personal attributes is what sets apart a great Youth Worker. It is very different to being a parent or family member, you need to set very different boundaries and this can be a tough adjustment.
Resilience, the ability to regulate your emotions, especially in stressful situations, and a lot of emotional strength are key. You can't take things personally and need to stay calm, cool, and collected even when faced with difficult situations. It's important to stay in control of your emotions and not react with a raised voice.
Being positive, when working with young people, I always go in with a positive attitude, smiling, showing interest, and providing warmth. You need to be ready for the unexpected and aim to invite them into a positive and supportive environment.
What do you love most about working for Edmen?
What I love most about working for Edmen is the flexibility it provides me as a working mom, student, and volunteer.
Being a part of Edmen has allowed me to work in various places and with different people. This exposure has allowed me to learn new strategies and techniques from more experienced individuals in the field.
Another aspect I love about Edmen is the support they provide. The team I interact with the most, Rana, Alison, Lexi, Sam and , are always friendly, accommodating, and appreciative of my work. They make sure to accommodate me even on the rare occasions that I can't do a shift. Overall, working for Edmen has been a wonderful experience and I feel supported every step of the way.
What made you choose Edmen?
Interestingly Edmen approached me. The CEO of the organisation where I am currently studying recommended me to Infinity Community Solutions, one of Edmen’s client partners. I had an interview with Brett from Edmen, that was smooth and well-organised. I completed all the checks and not long after I got my first placement.
What’s next for you?
I see a future for myself where I have gained more experience and expertise in the Youth Work sector. My goal is to progress to a leadership or managerial role, where I can use my skills and knowledge to support other Youth Workers, and make a positive impact on the lives of the young people we work with. I am committed to growing and developing my career in this field, and I believe that with my passion and dedication, I will be able to achieve this goal.
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